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If your childhood was like most people’s, your mom probably spent a good amount of time telling you to stop slouching. Well, it turns out your mom was very right to tell you that. When we sit up straight, we keep our entire spine in proper alignment. But when we slouch and hunch our shoulders, […]
If your childhood was like most people’s, your mom probably spent a good amount of time telling you to stop slouching. Well, it turns out your mom was very right to tell you that. When we sit up straight, we keep our entire spine in proper alignment. But when we slouch and hunch our shoulders, we mess with our posture and that can lead to pain!
How many of us sit all day, staring down at our phones and laptops? When we hunch our shoulders and let our heads hang down for any length of time, it reduces the healthy curve in our cervical spine.
Your cervical curve is found in your neck and it consists of your spine’s first 7 vertebrae. This curve starts at the atlas vertebrae (right below your skull) and ends where it meets the thoracic spine.
When it’s healthy, this cervical curve should resemble a backward “C” in shape. You have another important “C” shape lower down called the lumbar curve. So in healthy adults, their spines should follow an “S” shape.
The important curve in our neck is usually reduced by traumas – both major and minor. Major traumas include car accidents, slips/falls causing an impact, and sports injuries. Only a small percentage of the population will experience these major traumas.
But a great majority of the population will experience minor traumas, also known as micro-traumas, to the neck as a result of poor posture or poor sleeping habits such as stomach sleeping, unsupportive mattresses, or too many pillows.
The most important thing you can do to protect your neck is by keeping your head straightly over your shoulders. For every 1 inch your head is postured in front of your shoulders, you’re adding 10 additional pounds of weight to your spine. Again, with so many people looking down all day at their laptops and mobile phones, there are more and more instances of long-term muscle strain, disc herniation, arthritis and pinched nerves as a result of this unhealthy forward head position and loss of cervical curve.
If you have a lot of pain in your neck, it’s a good idea to see a chiropractor. He or she will take imaging of your neck and spine to see how much wear and tear you may have. They will then be able to come up with a treatment plan to help improve the health of your spine and alleviate your pain.
If you would like to come in for an evaluation, please give us a call. We will do a thorough evaluation and come up with a customized treatment plan to help you get rid of that pain in your neck!
SOURCES:
https://www.chiroone.net/bewell/the-importance-of-your-cervical-curve
Gestational diabetes is a short-term condition that occurs during pregnancy. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, gestational diabetes affects roughly 2% to 10% of pregnancies in the United States. Women with gestational diabetes have higher-than-normal blood sugar levels during pregnancy. There are pregnancy complications associated with gestational diabetes. One of the most […]
Gestational diabetes is a short-term condition that occurs during pregnancy. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, gestational diabetes affects roughly 2% to 10% of pregnancies in the United States. Women with gestational diabetes have higher-than-normal blood sugar levels during pregnancy.
There are pregnancy complications associated with gestational diabetes. One of the most serious is called preeclampsia, which can cause high blood pressure and can be fatal of not treated in time.
Gestational diabetes is also associated with a condition called macrosomia, where a baby can grow too large. Macrosomia is associated with a higher risk for an emergency C-section delivery.
And finally, gestational diabetes can also lead to your baby having low blood glucose at birth. If gestational diabetes has been poorly controlled, your baby is even at increased risk for stillbirth.
While the exact causes aren’t fully understood, there are things women can do to lower the possibility of developing the condition. But before I get to that, let’s look at some of the common risk factors for developing gestational diabetes:
The best way to prevent and manage gestational diabetes is through diet and exercise. Kind of a one-two punch at controlling blood sugar levels.
Some exercises that are sage to perform during pregnancy include:
You’ll also want to pay close attention to your carbohydrate intake.
What foods should you eat and avoid during pregnancy? Here are some general guidelines:
Proteins such as lean meats and fish, eggs or egg whites, dairy and lentils and other legumes.
Fresh organic produce is best but frozen veggies are another good option. Be sure to limit the amount of sugary fruits you eat. Low glycemic fruits such as grapefruit, cantaloupe and berries are best.
But perhaps the biggest dietary advice is what NOT to eat while pregnant. It’s very important that you stay away from ALL processed foods including fast foods and really anything that comes in packaging. Many foods you would never guess, including salad dressings, soups and many flavored yogurts, have a LOT of hidden sugars in them. So it’s best to stick with whole foods and make your own meals as much as possible.
If you have been diagnosed with gestational diabetes, ask your OBGYN to connect you with a certified nutritionist who can work with you to develop a personalized meal plan that will keep you and baby healthy.
SOURCES:
https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/preventing-gestational-diabetes
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325156
https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/gestational-diabetes-food-list
As a result of the Coronavirus pandemic, many therapists have had to quickly pivot and offer their clients online sessions in an effort to help them to continue to make progress while at the same time abide by the social distancing guidelines to flatten the curve. While it seems our country and the rest of […]
As a result of the Coronavirus pandemic, many therapists have had to quickly pivot and offer their clients online sessions in an effort to help them to continue to make progress while at the same time abide by the social distancing guidelines to flatten the curve.
While it seems our country and the rest of the world are slowly opening back up, many of us have learned something very important during this crisis: telehealth offers clients something very valuable, and that is therapy on THEIR terms. It’s really not so surprising that telehealth is currently a $6 billion industry that is expected to reach $20 billion by 2025.
Here are just some of the benefits of “virtual therapy”:
Traditionally, many people, especially those that live in smaller towns and cities, refuse to seek help from a therapist for fear people will find out. With telehealth, a patient can receive help from the comfort and privacy of their own home. This can be particularly helpful for therapists who treat teens and young adults who go to the same school/college and can feel ashamed of seeking professional help.
Not many of us ever feel we have enough time in the day to accomplish all that we need to. You will find your clients will appreciate telehealth because it saves them having to deal with traffic, scheduling in possible long drive times, and looking for parking.
I have found in my own practice that those clients who often require my services the most are the ones that are overworked and often have scheduling conflicts. Telehealth helps you to offer clients timeslots outside of regular hours that you may not normally have available.
Therapists benefit from telehealth as well. In any given month, many clients may show up late to an appointment. When a session can begin with the simple mouse-click, timeliness is greatly improved.
Online therapy means a therapist can run their practice without the need of a front desk staff or paying for office space each month. This extra revenue can greatly impact their life.
These are only a handful of the benefits telehealth offers to both providers and patients. And while it will be a bit more time before clients and therapists fully embrace online therapy, the future looks bright.
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In the past few years, we’ve all heard the phrase “toxic masculinity” mentioned very often. But what is it really? Is it as big of a problem as everyone seems to think it is? And, if so, who does toxic masculinity hurt the most? What is Toxic Masculinity? The phrase and concept of toxic masculinity […]
In the past few years, we’ve all heard the phrase “toxic masculinity” mentioned very often. But what is it really? Is it as big of a problem as everyone seems to think it is? And, if so, who does toxic masculinity hurt the most?
The phrase and concept of toxic masculinity emerged from the men’s movement of the 80s and 90s. From here the phrase was adopted into classroom studies and university discourse.
But what does toxic masculinity look like in action? It could be the perpetuation of the idea that men shouldn’t feel their feelings or express their emotions. Or, worse, making anger and violence the only acceptable form of masculine emotion.
Toxic masculinity also refers to the idea that certain men have a habit of objectifying women and feeling superior to women. And perhaps the biggest failure of toxic masculinity is the idea that somehow all of this is perfectly normal and acceptable behavior and that “boys will be boys.” Certain behaviors and characteristics are valued within the concept of toxic masculinity while others are marginalized.
The knee-jerk response would be to say that toxic masculinity hurts women the most. After all, it is women who are “treated as second class citizens and objectified” because of toxic masculinity and the “patriarchal society.”
But I would suggest that men suffer even more from the very concept of toxic masculinity. When you think about it, both the role of men and women have changed over the last 50+ years. While women have become more empowered and have been invited to embrace their independence and strength, young men have gotten mixed messages. What is and is no longer acceptable seems to be ever-changing. At times it seems the war isn’t just against “toxic” masculinity, but masculinity in general. What does it even mean to be masculine these days and how are men supposed to navigate these tricky waters?
Men are human beings, and many are hurting right now, confused as to what their role and identity is in this modern world. This, in turn, impacts the relationships men have with the women in their life and the family they create. In other words, there can be a devastating ripple effect.
Therapy offers men an accepting environment to explore their feelings and uncertainties and to develop their inner character. Working with a therapist can give men the opportunity to communicate what their mind and heart are feeling and make sense of the conflicting messages they often get from society.
If you or someone you love would benefit from therapy, please get in touch with me. I would be more than happy to support your journey to discover who you really and how you want to express yourself.
SOURCES:
https://blogs.psychcentral.com/humans/2020/02/does-toxic-masculinity-really-exist/
https://blogs.psychcentral.com/veganism/2019/08/veganism-and-masculinity/
Hate exercising? You’re definitely not alone. At any time during the year, thousands of people across the country commit to working out, only to fall off the wagon weeks later. So what gives? Why does exercising feel so hard and is there any possible way to like it more? Exercise feels like a chore because […]
Hate exercising? You’re definitely not alone. At any time during the year, thousands of people across the country commit to working out, only to fall off the wagon weeks later.
So what gives? Why does exercising feel so hard and is there any possible way to like it more?
Exercise feels like a chore because there are so many misconceptions (AKA myths) out there surrounding it. The best way to like exercise is to put some of these myths to bed.
Let’s DO THIS…
Most people think there is a certain magical number of days and minutes of exercise, and if we hit it, we have exercised “enough.” But what happens is, people who are not in the best shape hit the gym hard for 45 minutes a day, 5 days a week. And this is simply too much for them all at once and they eventually quit.
There IS NO magic number. The real magic begins by simply moving your body more. So don’t focus on a number, focus on creating a better habit in yourself and moving your body more each day.
Then you aren’t doing the right exercise for YOU. No one says you MUST take a spinning class or a yoga class. No one says you MUST run 5 miles a day or do 100 squats a day.
What do you enjoy? If you like dancing, take dance classes every week. Do you like to swim? Maybe you used to play tennis and it would be fun to get back into it.
There are almost endless activities and ways to move your body, so pick something that isn’t boring to you and do that.
Wrong.
Now I guess we should start by discussing what “pain” actually means. If you haven’t moved your body very much except to walk from the sofa to the kitchen to retrieve another beer, then yes, you can expect that your muscles might get a little sore. But sore and pain are NOT the same thing.
If, while you are working out, you feel any kind of real pain, STOP immediately. This is particularly true if you are over the age of 50 and very out of shape. Nothing should hurt on your body. This is a sign that you are pushing yourself too hard. When you workout so hard that you can barely move the next day… well, you are hardly going to want to do it all over again.
Go slow, pace yourself, don’t try and be a hero.
If you kick these 3 myths to the curb, choose an exercise you enjoy and just try and move your body a little bit each day, you may find that after a while you… (GASP!)… enjoy exercise!
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Having a baby is one of the most amazing and awesome events in a person’s life. Babies bring joy and laughter into the house. But the reality is, they also bring sleepless nights and inevitable and irreversible change. Having a baby also brings changes to a woman’s body. During pregnancy and right after, a woman […]
Having a baby is one of the most amazing and awesome events in a person’s life. Babies bring joy and laughter into the house. But the reality is, they also bring sleepless nights and inevitable and irreversible change.
Having a baby also brings changes to a woman’s body. During pregnancy and right after, a woman will experience shifts in her hormones. This may cause her to feel some depression and anxiety. This is a perfectly natural response to the event and is called having the “baby blues.”
But how do you tell if what you are experiencing is the “baby blues” or postpartum depression (PPD)?
As I mentioned, the baby blues is a very normal reaction. While the symptoms of anxiety and depression don’t feel good, they are mild and typically only last about two weeks.
Should symptoms worsen or last longer than two weeks, a new mother is considered to have PPD and encouraged to seek care and guidance from a mental health professional.
You may be surprised to learn that rates of depression among new fathers are very similar to those among new mothers. While male depression and anxiety are not a result of fluctuating hormones, their experience is very real.
One of the best ways new parents can cope with the initial baby blues is to find support from friends and family. This is particularly true when the couple has had their first child. This support will ensure both mom and dad can get some much-needed rest in those first few weeks. After this time, they will have gotten their “sea legs” and feel a bit more confident with their parenting instincts.
It’s also important that both parents try and eat right during this time. Try not to rely solely on fast food and other processed food items that may give you a quick burst of “fake” energy, only to have your energy and mood crash later. And it’s important to also take a bit of exercise. This will keep your body feeling good and help the release of natural “feel-good” endorphins.
And finally, it may help to speak with a therapist. He or she can help you navigate your strong emotions and offer strategies to cope with being new parents.
If you or someone you know is a new parent and would like to explore treatment options, please get in touch with me. I would be more than happy to discuss how I may help.
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If you’re like most people, you are doing your best to stay calm during COVID-19 pandemic. But that can feel incredibly difficult at times. When not worrying about friends and loved one’s health, there’s also the conflicting information provided by the media and the economic ramifications of the virus that have people on edge. Signs […]
If you’re like most people, you are doing your best to stay calm during COVID-19 pandemic. But that can feel incredibly difficult at times. When not worrying about friends and loved one’s health, there’s also the conflicting information provided by the media and the economic ramifications of the virus that have people on edge.
Everyone reacts differently to stressful situations, but most will exhibit some of the following signs:
If you are experiencing significant stress right now, here are some ways you can cope:
Hearing the media constantly spread panic isn’t good for anyone. It’s important to stay rational and do your own research to uncover facts from fiction as well as stay positive.
Be sure to get outside for some fresh air and go for a walk. Eat right and make sure to stay hydrated and get plenty of sleep. Avoid consuming too much alcohol and try and find fun ways to reconnect with your family.
If you have kids, look to them for some good old-fashioned playtime. Play hide and seek in the house. Create an obstacle course in the back yard. Watch some of your favorite funny movies. Laughter really is the best medicine so get plenty of it!
Many local businesses are hurting right now. If you’re still getting a paycheck, consider buying a gift card from a local restaurant, gym, hair salon, etc. to give them revenue now and you can use the card later. This will make you feel great at the same time.
Remember, your kids will ALWAYS look to you first to see how they should be thinking and feeling about something. So move about each day calmly and confidently and reassure your kids everything will be okay because it will be.
For many of us, there is a silver lining in this situation in the form of extra time. What can you do with the extra time that isn’t being used to drive an hour or more each day in commuting? Focus on using this time wisely. Maybe you have an ever-growing list of home projects that you just never have time to tackle. Tackle them now, you’ll feel great about it later.
If you find yourself becoming too stressed or depressed during this time, I encourage you to connect with me. Speaking with a therapist can help you cope with the situation and navigate the days ahead. I am currently able to conduct sessions over the phone or via Skype, so you won’t even have to leave your home if your state is in lockdown.
SOURCES:
https://www.ucihealth.org/news/2020/03/covid-19-anxiety
https://www.health.state.mn.us/communities/ep/behavioral/stress_covid19.pdf
Do you know the number one thing that causes aches and pains and makes a person feel old? Tight muscles and a lack of flexibility! Much attention is given to building muscle, but not enough on how to keep muscles and other soft tissues like ligaments and tendons loose and flexible. Is flexibility really that […]
Do you know the number one thing that causes aches and pains and makes a person feel old? Tight muscles and a lack of flexibility!
Much attention is given to building muscle, but not enough on how to keep muscles and other soft tissues like ligaments and tendons loose and flexible. Is flexibility really that important? Yes! It’s crucial actually.
Here are a few benefits of flexibility:
Muscle imbalances are one of the most common reasons for injuries during physical activities. This means some muscles are overactive (tight) while others are underactive. Flexibility helps to correct this issue.
Loose muscles that are less tense will alleviate those common aches and pains.
Increased muscular flexibility typically leads to improved posture. Plus, the increased range of motion helps with balance.
Stretching and opening up the body leads to feelings of physical relaxation, which in turn leads to a sense of peace and calm.
Once you have increased your flexibility, your muscles will be able to work more effectively. This will allow better movement and therefore better physical performance.
So now that you know the benefits of muscle flexibility, let’s take a look at some simple stretches you can do to improve yours. The use of resistance bands makes these exercises safe, precise, and easy, so if you don’t have any, pick up one or two online.
Stretching should be done only after a light warmup of the muscles. This could be doing some jumping jacks in place for a minute or two or using a treadmill or stationary bike for 3-5 minutes. The idea is to get the blood flowing to your muscles to make them ready for stretching.
Also, stretching should feel GOOD. You should never force a stretch or feel any pain. Only use just enough tension to deepen the stretch just enough.
Now, here are a few resistance band stretches to help you become more flexible:
Lie on the floor with the resistance band looped around your right foot. Grab the band closer to your foot to create tension. Now straighten your right leg as much as you comfortably can while keeping the left leg bent on the floor. Gently pull the right leg towards you, stretching the back of the leg.
Hold for 15 to 30 seconds and switch sides.
Sit on the floor with your legs extended out and loop the band around both feet. Cross the band and grab onto each side with both hands close to the feet. Gently curl your back, stretching it towards the back of the room and using the bands to create tension and add to the stretch. Keep your abs contracted and concentrate on feeling your shoulder blades spreading open.
Hold the position for 15 to 30 seconds.
You can do this stretch on the floor, sitting in a cross-legged position, or seated upright in a chair. Grip the band with your hands a few inches apart. Gently pull your arms out and down as low as you can to stretch the chest. If you need to adjust the tension, simply change the position of your hands on the band to tighten or loosen the grip.
These are only a few stretches, but they cover some of the biggest muscle groups and so are great to start with. You can go on Youtube to find more resistance band stretches.
We are also happy to develop a stretch routine that is suited specifically for your body and any issues you may be having. Not only do we help clients through chiropractic adjustments, but we also help to design exercise and stretching routines that will keep their joints healthy. Call us today.
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In 1996, California passed landmark legislation that legalized the use of medical marijuana, also known as cannabis. In 1998, a few more states followed suit; within ten years, 11 of the 50 states had legalized medical marijuana. Over 20 years later, as of 2019, 33 states have legalized medical marijuana use, with ten states plus […]
In 1996, California passed landmark legislation that legalized the use of medical marijuana, also known as cannabis. In 1998, a few more states followed suit; within ten years, 11 of the 50 states had legalized medical marijuana. Over 20 years later, as of 2019, 33 states have legalized medical marijuana use, with ten states plus the District of Columbia fully legalizing its use.
The legalizing of marijuana began as its startling effectiveness in alleviating a variety of medical conditions became popularized. While marijuana’s effectiveness in alleviating pain, nausea, seizures and increasing appetite are well known, here are a few lesser known benefits of cannabis that may surprise you.
Improves Lung Capacity
According to a 2016 study on the Effect of Cannabis Smoking On Lung Function and Respiratory Symptoms for the NPJ Primary Care Respiratory Medicine Journal, marijuana smoking is associated with an increase in the lungs’ forced vital capacity. The cause for this is unclear, but may be due to inhaling and holding smoke in the lungs, as is commonly done by smokers of marijuana.
Increases Motivation
There is a growing number of people using cannabidiol (CBD) to manage symptoms of panic, anxiety, and depression. Delta-9 tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) has long been the most well-known cannabinoid in marijuana since it causes the infamous “high”. However CBD, another naturally-occurring cannabinoid in marijuana, doesn’t cause a “high” but does provide other positive effects to its users, including a decrease in symptoms of panic, anxiety, and depression, while providing an increase in motivation.
Helps Alleviate Symptoms of ADHD
For people with ADHD, it may be difficult to focus on tasks. People with ADHD may feel restless or have difficult sitting still. Marijuana use has been an effective treatment option for some sufferers of ADHD. The medications typically prescribed to people with ADHD helps correct the levels of dopamine in their brain, and marijuana is believed to have a similar impact on the brain as its prescription counterparts.
While there are a myriad of health benefits to potentially gain from the use of cannabinoids, nothing is risk-free. You should always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.
Are you struggling with an ADHD diagnosis and looking for support and coping strategies? A licensed mental health professional can help. Call my office today and let’s schedule a time to talk.
As a busy parent of a young child, you may find it challenging to find the time or space to meditate. One solution is to bring the two together, and have your child meditate with you. Meditating with Young Children For children five and under, it will be difficult for them to sit still for […]
As a busy parent of a young child, you may find it challenging to find the time or space to meditate. One solution is to bring the two together, and have your child meditate with you.
Meditating with Young Children
For children five and under, it will be difficult for them to sit still for any length of time. Even a few seconds might be the most you can expect. Adjust your expectations and try to remain flexible in your approach. Most experts agree that by six years of age, children should be able to sit still for one minute per year of age, so age six would be one minute, age seven is two minutes and so forth.
Kids Will Be Kids
It’s important to be patient as you work on a meditation exercise with your child. It’s normal for children to have difficulty sitting still. They may not be able to keep their eyes closed, they may fidget or wiggle as they sit, and they might laugh or try to be funny because it’s awkward or difficult for them to remain still and quiet. This is completely normal, so maintain a sense of humor and take any challenges that arise in stride. It will take time to teach your child to meditate. If you’re overly strict or discipline your child too much, you will end up making this a negative interaction instead of a calming one.
Meditation Exercises for Children
You’ll want to start with a brief session and try to make it fun. A candle-gazing meditation is an easy way to start. For children, guided meditations are generally the best way to teach them to meditate. There are many guided meditations available for free online that are specifically for children. You can find them through a simple Google search or by searching on YouTube.
There are also apps you can use on your phone, tablet or smart TV that are also completely free. One example is Breathe, Think, Do with Sesame, an app intended for children under five which is available for the Android and iOS. Another example is Wellbeyond Meditation for Kids for iOS.
There are also classes available at some meditation centers that are specifically for children. Do a Google search for “meditation center [city, state]”, then check their online schedule or give them a call to find out if they have meditation classes for children.
Are you a parent looking for unique ways to cope with challenging parenting issues? A licensed therapist can provide the support and guidance you need. Give my office a call today and let’s schedule a time to talk.